YR, Your h is just one confused basket case, isn't he? He doesn't have a clue as to what he wants and after all of this time and mess he's stirred up, he thinks that you'll roll over and allow him to jerk you around? I don't think you will or are going to allow that to happen.
He so very dearly wants to be in control and to show you who is controlling the purse strings, but unfortunately, he's going to find out the hard way that life isn't always as easy as 1,2 or 3.
God and the law are on your side. As long as you are being honest and doing the right thing, everything will fall into place and that's what I see happening here.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
