yes unfortunately in virginia, you have to wait a year to file anything with a child. So as far as that, nothing i can do til then, which of course will be too late. She would have to pay half when someone does file, but at that point credit would be destroyed, and i have already accepted that. I do want my family to be reconciled. Anyone have any DB tips at this point?


M - 42
W - 41
Married 9 years July 24, 2010
WAW moved out 8-9-10
2nd Marriage for Both
S 2
SS 13 from W first Marriage