I hear ya MHL. How do I detach if I have to talk to her regarding the kids. We don't have anything legal in place and I'm at her mercy. She changes the rules of when and what time I can see them.
I don't know how to detach when she's playing this game with me. I want it all to simply stop.
I SO appreciate the words. I do want to do all the things you say. I just don't know how to do that AND deal with my kids. Once something is in place, I know I can deal with the other.
Bolt, this was said way back, but you need to get a legal agreement in place regarding your kids. Don't leave yourself "at her mercy."
Get this taken care of ASAP.
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