confused bolt

[Bolt]

I hear ya MHL. How do I detach if I have to talk to her regarding the kids. We don't have anything legal in place and I'm at her mercy. She changes the rules of when and what time I can see them.

I don't know how to detach when she's playing this game with me. I want it all to simply stop.

I SO appreciate the words. I do want to do all the things you say. I just don't know how to do that AND deal with my kids. Once something is in place, I know I can deal with the other.