Look, I know how hard this is, yet there are things you are doing to make it worse.
You gotta back off of the context of the talks. I'm not sure who is initiating the relationship talks, but it sure seems the talks always include them.
Your pretty little MLCer will always try to engage you in some sort of talk, yet all they seem to do is, bring it up to re-ensure their decision.
All you gotta do to not get sukced in is....politely state that you have already heard that, and you do not wish to participate in those talks.
Most of your pain right now ( as I see it ) is....
You seem to be spending an awful lot of time commiserating about the past , and what happened.
There doesn't seem to be too much about the future yet. Which is where your interests should lie with your girls.
Find SOMETHING to look forward to with them. Plan a day trip, start thinking of vacation ideas with them.
You have the power to change things in their world....
You need to start viewing things as a new beginning, instead of a bittered past for them...
Your MLCer is gonna keep your head spinning big time Bolt....No need for you both to spin.
You can't let your past, define your future , because it has yet to be written....
Oh, and you are gonna change your mind more than once regarding...
Originally Posted By: Bolt
I don't want that hope anymore. I want the hope that there is a better future without my W. She's moved on. I have to as well.
