Bolt,

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I just want all of this done so I CAN get on with my life. I feel I can't until something is decided on the kids.


I know. I also know it may take more time than you would like for something to be decided.

How are the girls holding up?

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I don't want anymore contact and once the girls are decided, I won't have any contact.


You know this isn't true right? Because of the girls there will probably always be some kind of contact. You have an enormous amount of power in deciding how it will go.

HUGS