thanks for your comments, I think integrity is absolutely key to my own self esteem and respect from wife. I think though that filing for divorce, is a game of brinkmanship that you had better follow through with if you threaten it otherwise you lose all your bargaining chips. I have engaged a lawyer and getting myself sorted, but Im going to let wife do that if she wants. Dont forget I want to stay married here. I may well end up doing it, but I am about 7 - 8 weeks into this nightmare, so i believe it is early days, according to what I see others are doing.
Facingdivorce Me: 46 W: 40 D8 D6 Seperated feb 2011
