M I was also amazed at how many people I knew that either went through it or knew someone who went thru it I personally knew 3 couples who went thru it and stayed together none of their H moved out, all had A they are all still together I guess it depends on the severity and the people none of them DB..all of the wives waited I also know of people who went thru similar stuff and said H came back many years later with some regret but it was too late thwy had moved on From what I see and read here on the boards, most of the LBS seem to wind up OK while th MLCers seem to reamain confused for years after just continue to take care of you somehow we get thru it all seems to work out maybe not always easy but we grow and hopefully its all for good peace
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