Is there an om? How do you progress

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Just got a long angry email from my W, covering a hole bunch of topics from custody to divorce process. She is furious that i said she should prioritise her care of the children not go out with om.interesting she keeps telling me to focus on the children, but im not allowed to say the same.

Sigh

The one side of this, is she obviously has some reactions to me and this is the longest email i have had from her. The flip side is She is way angry and continues to deny affair and says marriage is over. But to date she never mentions the divorce word.

Those of you who know, can i turn this breakthrough email, into a discussion. At least if we re discussing there is something. I dont know how to respond though to email. I have done a draft that is bullet point and addresses the facts, but thats it , the type of unemotional response.

I dont want to get into a tit for tat email , you said she said. Theres no winners in that. Do i not respond ( or is that squandering an opportunity )

Or do i do a more i understand you, support you ( which would be a big change in tone ).

If anyone has advice please let me know as i am not responding straight away

Thanks