Hi, Thanks for your responses. I have re- thought my strategy as well as given him tough love. I have told him that he is not to contact me unless its about something we need to take care of. Therefore, I have not heard from him since Thursday. I am in a crisis mode myself though. We are both from the same state and we moved to Az together. My daughter bought a house for us to rent, my mom died, when we had not even unpacked and he bolted the day I came home from burying her. I have been so depressed, I have no real connections here, so I am trying to figure out what to do, where to go. I cannot afford to live in this home by myself, so I do not know what to do. My family is helping me try to sort through my options. Like how I will get home, where will I work. they are even sending my sister here to stay with me until my contract ends because I feel like I am going insane alone and scared and depressed.