Positively moving forward

[BeingMe]

I somewhat agree with Mishka. Think about what message you are sending your son ... yes, that you'll always be there for him ... but, this is how men treat women? It's such a weird situation to be in. I do remember telling my H in the early days, that I feel as if I need to protect our children from him, who should be our protector. Not sure if your H is ready to hear that, or if you care to tell him this, but in a way, it's true on a certain level.

Mishka, your friend should be going to court now, and showing her teen kids that she is not a doormat.