Things are going well for me and D. The divorce is moving ahead slowly but that is okay. It will be final when it is time.
I called H on Saturday to offer an olive branch so we could get the stuff he want from the D decided. My L said it would be easier to do this. He was pleasant at first and then the ugly head of MLC reared up. He said that he was living from paycheck to paycheck and that I wasn't getting everything the L says I would. He said that he was going to stop paying for the mustang, the car I have. I told him that it would be foolish on his part since there are only 4 payments left. My L said he will pay and if it comes down to it we will do an emergency hearing to make sure he does. As he became moe angry I told him that I was hanging up and didn't have to listen to it anymore.
So Easter he calls and asked to come over and see D and when the kids left we could talk. I told him that was fine but it was Easter and I wasn't going to stand for any chaos or arguments.
We all had a good day. When the kids left we went over everything. He doesn't want anything but his tools, his old bronco and his truck. So what was all the fuss about?? He is mad that I am in control.
Anyway, we talked for a while and he said that he still has alot of issues and that maybe in the future we could try again. I told him that time would tell but this D is something I have to do for myself to heal. He said he understood and then we both cried.
I am actually holdig up pretty well and keeping the home front running. D is doing good for the most part, but still misses her dad. We are keeping busy and outside alot!!!
