WAW, and a bisexual open marriage

[25yearsmlc]

GB,

First, I'm glad to hear that your posts are more negative than the reality is. We all have used this place to vent, so don't worry that we can't relate. We can.

Second, what I'm most interested in has been alluded to here already. What are YOU doing for YOU? Yes a tournament sounds good but I guess I don't know what your 180s are, or your new GAL are.

Also, SHE said she wanted a divorce or she threw that word out in a fight and never retracted? That word needs to be off limits unless the person is ready to file or thinking seriously about it. Not as a weapon or threat.

And why is she "following" a band she likes, for FIVE days, without you? Oh, you can't go because of work. I know maybe ZERO happily married couples who would then have one spouse go away for so long for something like that, which is, btw, on the list of "Signs of an Affair." Yes -attending events like concerts, "alone" is a sign of an affair-it's right on the list b/c most happily married couples don't part for that long for a concert. Is the concert one night? How is it five days? Where is she staying?

Is it a music festival? Oh, AND she wants to go SEPARATELY?? okay that's not behavior of happily married people. And she thinks YOU don't know how to behave b/c she goes nuts when you drive a shopping cart badly or answer one of her set up questions the wrong way.

Just letting you know, you need to identify what is and isn't healthy and stop enabling crazy stuff. Just mho.