Just wanted to check in and maybe get some tips. Going on being seperated for almost 7 months now. House still hasnt sold. I am giving W $600 per month for CS. W never did offer to help with any bills. Nothing i can do about it. I have been pretty dark for a while with the exception of dealing with S.

My SS did ask me to go to counseling with him a few weeks ago. Was all positive. His real father is being mean to him once again and hasnt seen him in over a year and a half.
A few weeks ago i sent her a text saying i was thinking about her and i missed her. No response.

Over this past weekend. She called me to ask me to pray for SS because his dad was being mean again. Later in the day, i text her saying thank you for being a great and loving mother. She responded saying thanks.

So thats were i am at now. Havnet had any relationship talk, no begging, pleading or nothing. Just spending alot of time with my son and doing other things.

Doesnt seem like there is any movement in either direction. Where do i go from here.


M - 42
W - 41
Married 9 years July 24, 2010
WAW moved out 8-9-10
2nd Marriage for Both
S 2
SS 13 from W first Marriage