KM, it is hard to go dark when you have kids. What i do is call up and ask for my daughter. I talk to her and then disconnect. But there are times when W wants to talk and tell me some D related info. I decide to talk to her on those things on a case by case basis.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...