You dont have to be dark on everything. Things that concern the kids need to be expressed.
The idea of going dark is to let her know that you are GAL and that she doesnt dominate your thoughts. It gives her time to miss you and see what life will be like without you and it also gives her some space. It gives you some power back; especially if you were crying and pleading for her to reconsider.
There are so many reasons for going dark and not one is the same for everybody.
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