You will all be happy to hear that I have found an attorney that I will be calling TODAY! I am starting to slowly but surely come to terms with things. Doesn't hurt any less but I am doing it. I will continue to love him unconditionally and be kind to him no matter how he treats me. Hopefully this will hit him later on in his life at some point.
Lily
No, Lily, it doesn't make me "happy" at all, but I do think it's wise that you protect yourself, and at least better know your options, rights, responsibilities, etc. legally.
As for this:
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I asked him if he had someone else in his life and he said no. I then asked him if he wanted to have someone else in his life and he said "God No". I then asked him if he would tell me if he did and he said he would. I then told him that I felt that I was standing in the way of him being with someone else and he said that he didn't quite know how to answer that. I told him to answer it honestly and he said, "oh, I would, its just I don't really know what to say about it", whatever that means. I then dropped it.
, this is a complete WASTE OF TIME, because:
- If there is no one else, he'll say there's no one else
- If there IS someone else, he'll say there's no one else.
ALL CHEATERS LIE, Lily -- PERIOD. They'll do it right to your face, and often will do it even when you present them with incontrovertable evidence. It's sad, almost pathetic, but it's true, and there's no point asking someone "Are you cheating on me?" It's like asking the Devil himself "Are you a deceiver?"
