So, I guess I need some clarification then as to what detachment really means. I have read Divorce Remedy but not Divorce Busting. Do the two books offer different things? Apparently I am not "getting it". I understand the whole GAL but what are the guidelines per say of a detachment? Do I still talk to him first, or is it only if he talks to me? Do I say hello, goodbye, goodnight, etc to him first? Do I comletely ignore him unless I am spoken to? Do I turn down a chance to run and errand or grab a bite with him? If you could clue me in to some of the ways you detached that would be great and very helpful.
I guess when I say I won't change, it means I won't relinquish my belifs that I need to love unconditionally and allow him to get the better of me. I have certainly learned a great deal about myself and I feel that I have changed for the better, i.e. more patience, understanding,forgiveness, etc.
Maybe I am just getting caught up in the details too much but if you could clue me in to how you detached that would be great.
