greenblue. One word: EXACTLY!

I think somewhere in the process of being married and caring for a family it is easy to slip into boring, predictable family-man-land. It might even be what our Ws need or want at that time. We have to put hobbies and friends on the shelf for awhile. And it can be tough to pull ourselves out of. But Gentlemen, think about what we all mention here - we are musicians, songwriters, pilots, actors, divers, people with interesting jobs and interests who are getting ourselves back into shape, training at night or running the Boston Marathon. (cue the Rocky music) And we're committed to the hard work of making our Ms work.

Speaking just for myself here - what I have been missing is the swagger.

By the way hoswald, if you fly helicopters get your W up there! Think about it - a VERY cool date night where you are in your element and in control of the situation. That's what SCUBA was for me, back in the day....