Post-Easter journaling:

Well, not really a lot to say in terms of W. She went camping with another couple and OM. The four of them have several group outings planned for the summer. It [censored], it feels (and looks) like two couples doing things together. While W was camping I watched the dogs and cats at our (her) house.

Hung out with friends Fri and Saturday nights. Saturday night went to a bonfire at a friends house in the country. Ended up being flirty with a woman I met there, but found out later that night she was married. Not that anything would have happened, but the attention was nice.

Sunday I went out for lunch myself (happy Easter). Ended up chatting with SIL for a while. She lives in CO and I caught her up on our (W and I) recent trip. She mentions offhand how hard it must have been with OM on the trip. I told her it was hard but secretly wondered to myself how she knew anything of him. Then again, I think everyone around us knows about him.

W and I exchanged Happy Easter text messages and she thanked me for some candy I got her (not much, but it was stuff she likes). Easter is her favourite holiday, so despite what some here might say I thought it was appropriate to get her at least a token gift (2x4s still accepted as necessary). Other than that, very dim, hardly any contact at all.

I'm not a big Easter fan, but it was hard yesterday, especially seeing all the couples and families out having lunch together. At least that's over for the year. Next milestone/holiday, Ws birthday soon. Ugh


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011