gb90... there was something that I felt might have been missed in 25yrs' post.

First, you are doing an awesome job detailing your sitch. There is a lot that we know with all that info.

There is a huge amount of energy being spent micro analyzing the sitch, your W, and your interactions with W.

When are you going to take a little break and take care of yourself? What are you doing to GAL, outside of things you feel may effect your M and W? What are you doing to detach?