Good thought sparks! Not a bad plan to reconcile for the kids with the understanding that you'll use the opportunity to but the M back together. AJM80 once told me on this very board that I'm gonna have to fix myself for another W/R, so it may as well do it for this W/M.

So, if he's willing to get back in the game, it can be an open door to bigger & better things as long as there is commit to that end.

Question is what does AJM80 want? If your goal is to save the M, then get the commitment and get to it? How do you feel?

You also once told me to not settle for half way. Its a fine line.


"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending."
- Maria Robinson

M: 45 WAW: 36
T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9
ILYBNILWY: 6/2010
W left: 2/2011
W back: 2/2012