Try not to ask any questions about the R! I know that it is hard, but I have learned that if I will wait on him to bring it up then the conversation goes better. I think that we are supposed to avoid ALL R talk, but if they bring it up...i'm not real sure how to avoid it!! Maybe some of the vets can help???
Baby steps are good. I have had a lot of baby steps. The problem that I have is that when I have baby steps or even normal steps, I start creating these "he's going to come home" fantasies in my head and sometimes that sets me up for disappointments. However, I'm sure that everyone goes through that, but you just have to remember EXPECT NOTHING and you can't be disappointed =)
I am giving my little girl as much stability as possible. The problem with that is that she has attached herself to me and does not like me to go anywhere without her. It's frustrating because he is a REALLY good Daddy and I feel so bad for him that she has these feelings. It's just frustrating!!! I keep talking to her though and letting her know that even if I leave to go somewhere...I will always come back home. Reassurance and patience is the name of the game =)
I hope you have a good week!
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11
