Hi All, So sorry for the typos. I have Lupus and the Dr prescribed some pretty powerful drugs to help me cope. Heres a recap of my situation. H and I were together 13 years. This is both our 2nd marriage so he is at the right age for MLC. H has left me now 4 times. The last time he left, we divorced. ( His choice/ not mine) I divorced busted and he ended up coming back and asking me to re- marry him. This was 4 years ago but we never re- married. H has many childhood issues, and each time he left he gave the speech. However, he continued to hang on to me by calling frequently and trying to remain friends. The last time he left, I was ready to move on. I was close to earning my degree and he came back, declaring his love for me. Each time he has left, he has said the same things, so it is such a cycle for him. Its like he wants me but then he doesnt
