Hi, just some info on my sitch, im 46h, 40 w and 2 beautiful daughters , 6 and 8. We both had high end corp jobs lots of travel but we were good and focussed. Anyway eife turns 40 in oct 2010, and in feb 2011 comes back from work trip and says marriage over. She then buys new clothes, hair cut, exercises, ups the travel, goes completely cold and spends money recklessly, hides phone, became secretive. I obviously suspect an om, but i havent the proof. I moved out at her behest, but move back in and out when she travels to look after the kids.
This has been going on for 8 weeks. first month i was crying, begging, the usual, but now got it kind of together and am doing 180 with LC.
Wife is evasive at best, we may have a brief sms once a week. An email re custody arrangements but thats it, its very dark.
What do you all think, is she having affair ( she denies ) and how do I proceed. Any ideas r really appreciated
