I definitely think it's a call for help. I think things are wrong in many aspects of his life, our R being one of them. I think he's grasping at anything to make a change in his life at this point and re-evaulating everything. Unfortunately I feel on the cutting table.
I roughly know the basic needs concept, I'll investigate further. Thanks for the help.
He responded to the long-winded email with the typical expectations. I even got the typical landmarks of the "i don't love you" and "i haven't loved you for some time". The things he is saying just keep pointing to this being a call for help because he has been very loving over the past years. Or he's just a good liar...
So tempted to respond but I'm going to stay strong and remain dark for a while.
