Starsky, I love RobX's approach but that is definitley a LRT. Not sure I am ready to go there yet but getting very close. It definitely might help me get some power back but also might be the last nail in the coffin too. I have to really be ready for that ultimatum.
Lily,
The man is actively scheming the end of your marriage -- legally, emotionally, financially. How are you in anything BUT the Last-Resort-Technique? In fact, I believe you are in the AFTER the Last Resort Technique.
A tree limb has crashed thru your roof, Lily. You ignore it at your peril.
Starsky
I agree.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016