My reply is 100% validation & acknowlegement of everything she has said - although I have only recently started posting on DB.com I have been reading it for the last 4 months and have also invested in DR book.
My W's words & behaviors have softened considerably since Christmas to such and extent that I foolishly forced the issue by way of "you've gotta choose what you want to with our R" statement a week before mothers day. Ever since that she seemed to go cold & distant culminating with the mothers day bomb & subsequent email that followed.
Tomorrow will be an interesting day.
FF999
Me 48 W 49 D19, S17, D14 Together 25yr, Married 22yr Me checked-out July 10, back Sept 10 W checked out Nov 10 Separated Dec 10 ILYBNILWY 2nd Apr 11 We're finished + D bomb 17th Apr 11
