BH, I think we do get explanations--maybe a direct apology like Trusting, or a bungled MLC-ish style one like I did. That said, I do think it is best to avoid them.
I noticed that even now, X refuses to acknowledge that I did anything kind for him. This hurt me, but I also realize that he is so wrapped in medical issues, I do not think that he is capable of being anything but primitive now.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D