Well, it's done.

We reached a settlement in 4-1/2 hours at mediation and agreed on a parenting plan. All that remains is to appear before a judge and get his rubber stamp. Easter Sunday will mark six months to the day since she dropped the bomb. Lovely!

The stupid thing about all this is - If she can't find another job, I still end up supporting the whole family anyway. But I think this job lay off is going to ba a part of her coming out of the fog. I say that with caution, wondering if it is part of the "smoke of destruction" message I thought I received in prayer a couple of months ago.

Anyway, she's never experienced being fired before, and it hit her like a 2x4.


Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."