Punkin, Brooklyn is right, there's nothing you can do about how your h will be post divorce. It took my xh almost 3 years post divorce to settle down into a human being again and now it's the just the game playing.
He is the only one that can change the way he views life for himself. You've done all you can and now it's up to him and the man upstairs.
Enjoy Easter w/your family and know that you've done all you can do.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
