ff999,

I have (well I destroyed it since) actual proof that my W had a friend respond to an email that I had sent to my W. My W forwarded the email to friend (just looking for feedback) and friend responded (in probably just a standard "if it was me, this is how I would respond" manner). My W then made a couple slight changes and removed any reference that it came from friend and sent it to me...

The point is, it is possible that someone else wrote the letter for your W. I knew something was up with my W's email because it did not "sound" like her.

It does sound a little MLC scripted.

There are a few things. And personally, I would not respond.

It is a "dear jane" letter. Those generally don't need responses.

It is "words". Believe none of what you hear and 50% of what you see.

She does not have D as a priority ATM. Pretty simple. You've got time...

What do YOU want? What is the focus FOR YOU?