25yearsmlc,
I loved your post. This is his pattern for living and sometimes I feel that what I thought was MLC, is really bi-polar.
My daughter just bought a home here, so this makes my decision more difficult because we are renting it. However, she has been understanding and is looking for jobs for me back home. I have told h, no contact, so I got an ugly phone call regarding the electric bill still being in his name and he said since I am moving home, I better quit playing games. I took care of the name change today as well as closed out the bank account that was joint.
You are right. I have no support here and he is not a support system. I have to find a job and start over but I have family willing to help. Thanks for your prayers and wise words