While talking to STBX a couple days ago, she mentioned she has a job interview. If she actually goes through with it, it would be a big move. She has been at her current job for almost 10 years, and for various reasons, it has been one of the troubles in our marriage. Also, the new job would pay much less and would make things much tougher to live on her own.
The same day, she said she is "considering" going on vacation together. Just 2 months ago, she went away on her own (I think) and didn't want me to join her. Now, it is possible that she just wants a free vacation (I said I would pay), but I really doubt that is the reason. She just isn't that kind of person.
I have made sure I have made no big deal out of it and have not even brought it up since. I will let her make the next move - no pressure.
