Starsky, I love RobX's approach but that is definitley a LRT. Not sure I am ready to go there yet but getting very close. It definitely might help me get some power back but also might be the last nail in the coffin too. I have to really be ready for that ultimatum.
Lily,
The man is actively scheming the end of your marriage -- legally, emotionally, financially. How are you in anything BUT the Last-Resort-Technique? In fact, I believe you are in the AFTER the Last Resort Technique.
A tree limb has crashed thru your roof, Lily. You ignore it at your peril.
