She needs to do the work and not lay everything at your door. Remember to have more of an attitude of "I have a lot to think about before I decide anything". That is like a bolt of electricity shock to a WAW. If she should ask you what that statement means, you say, "Nothing, other than I have a lot to think about". If she asks if you don't want to work on the M, you just keep going back to that same theme. "I'm not saying that, I just know I want to think about what will make me happy". (Is that a 180 or what!) . . .
