Karma, IMO your family is spot on correct. We all need to take responsibility for the consequences of our decisions. LBS on this board seem to do this well before our WAS do.

You are not being mean or vindictive here. You are enabling her to grow.

BITS
Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill