Hi..I just got divorced on Monday...hardest thing feeling pretty low myself....I want and have gal but the pain is no less hurtful...I wonder how we got to where we are at in our lives..I never knew he was so unhappy.....my faith sometimes lets me down in thinking he will never return and he probably won't but one thing I do know is that I had his best yrs.our children our memories....our history.....I don't what to say to you other than we must keep on going...for us and our family, our children. I spent almost 28 yrs as his wife and that is hard to get over....