if you aint 2steping well then you just aint!! I love it
Regarding he convo it is clear she is angry and feels a sense of power and control. That's ok. She can have as much control as you allow her to have. I think you handled yourself just fine, don't allow yourself to get dragged into the gutter.
You are a citizen through M not M because of her inspite of her thanks to her thanks to you does not matter man. She can hold whatever she wants over your head and I know it it painful because you love her but you know what? Does not matter.
Hey I will let you in on a little secret! I became a US Citizen in 05' after I came back from my deployment over seas, the Army was going to kick me out because I had reached my term limit so I finally decided to stop being lazy and get it.
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I hate doing this to her
You are not doing anything to her. You standing up for what you believe has nothing to do with her, it has to do with you. Her choices are hers and your are yours. It is a choice and she has made it.
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i have this huge guilt that i am hurting her
Did you ask her to leave?
Did you ask her to file?
Did you ask her to move several hundred miles away?
if you aint 2steping well then you just aint!! I love it