With every down on the rollercoaster there's an associated up...

W and I drove to a concert last night. First time we've seen each other in over a week (been pretty dim with her). Had dinner at a brewpub before the show and I was on, acting as-if, actually, I wasn't even acting, I was genuinely happy to be with W and was fun to be around.

The distance and dimness gave us a lot to talk about. We discussed each other summer plans and what's been going on in our lives. She seemed pretty eager to share what she is doing this summer even though it didn't include me. I also shared what I am doing and I think she's realizing I'm GAL without her.

I thought the show was good. W wasn't really into the music but mentioned several times that she was having a good time and was glad she went. She was very tired from long days at work and little sleep, so she rested her head against me for a while. Ended up kissing a bit for the first time in a least three months. Drove home, dropped her off at her car and gave her another kiss goodnight. All in all it was about as perfect as a 'date' could be.

W has weekend plans so I probably won't see her until next week at the earliest. I'm ok with that, I do think we need time apart from each other. We've got a couple more 'dates' planned for the next few weeks. Good time to show her what a catch I am smile


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011