Are you sure all our H's don't have the same lawyer? My H's is notorius for showing up at court unprepared, making outrageous demands, and his questions wander off into the unknown until the judge asked him what is his point?
And nobody, I repeat NOBODY is tired of hearing you. That is what we are all here for, to help each other over the rough patches. If it was as simple as all that, you could just take a pill and move on. It's much, much more and both mental and physical. Not to make light of anyone's Depression; it is a serious problem, but the toll that the end of a marriage takes is horrifying.
Blame? My H blames me if the sun doesn't shine. I've pretty much made my peace with there is nothing I can do about that.
You will too. Hang in there. ((HUGS))
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
