W texted late last night to ask me not to come home on Saturday as planned, but to leave it 'til Sunday. She also said that she was glad that I had also moved on from 'us'. Initially I got really angry about the text but left it for 1/2hr to calm down and then replied "OK I understand. see you on Sunday". quite proud of myself for that.

I still have not responded to her original email (above), mostly because I haven't had the time. I seem to have a busy life at the moment which makes me feel good. I have acknowledged receipt of her email during a short conversation with her earlier this week. She seemed surprised that I was willing to spend more than a day in her company this coming weekend.

I have almost finished drafting my reply which is quite long- winded - says everything that I want to say ( no begging or pleading ) but I'm wondering whether I should just keep it short & sweet.

Please can someone advise on this. I'd like to send something before the weekend arrives.

Thanks again

FF999


Me 48
W 49
D19, S17, D14
Together 25yr, Married 22yr
Me checked-out July 10, back Sept 10
W checked out Nov 10
Separated Dec 10
ILYBNILWY 2nd Apr 11
We're finished + D bomb 17th Apr 11

For better, for worse