Sanderika and GAG, thank you for this suggestion, and support, and I will look into this. I was absent from the boards for a long time [more than two years] and came back with a new name, partly because I suspected that my h knew who I was in my old persona.
I found it helpful to be here while I was going through the divorce process, and I still find the journey that others are taking interesting.
I am setting up a new business at present, and also starting a blog [not about MLC!] so it would be good to tell you all about it on the alt.
