Punkin, Thanks Punkin, time does heal and time in pain does help most of us grow. When I look back at the rejection, abuse, button pushing, the actual divorce, the divorce trial, the asset division, etc.... I can't believe I went through all of that and survived. But I did, and you will too. You will come out of this a different person, a much better person. I know what I want, and know what I will no longer tolerate.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11