Sorry for the double post but seems I can't edit the last one.
In other news, we went to the C and it was a big failure. She pretty much said well sounds like H doesn't want to work on anything and he's got his mind made up. So you have to decide if you want to be the only one in the boat and it's a desperate and sad place, I would encourage you to not stay there. Ouch! Guess she's not pro-marriage... won't make that mistake again.
He still hasn't lifted a finger to file the paperwork so that's promising but he's so busy at work that I don't know if it's a sign of anything, to be honest.
He's still avoiding the house. I'm going to my parents for 2 weeks to go dark, get the heck out of here, heal emotionally and whatever else I need to do. He agreed to drive me to the airport (we only have one vehicle and he doesn't want it sitting in an airport parking lot). So we'll see how it goes from here.
