Almost done with the Sex Starved Marriage after a few hours of reading over the past 2 days. Three things have popped out at me so far though the rest is interesting...
1. Trying a little acceptance. Sometimes the problems in the marriage are small in comparison to all the good things. No R is perfect. Unfortunately this is the route I took that didn't really work with the H.
2. Little sparks. This one was an eye opener. As you can see how I said before there was no attraction even from the beginning but if I look for little sparks, they were sure there. And as I start to look at the issue from a more positive light, there were bigger attractions in the beginning too - no matter how short-lived that time was. Hmm..
3. Men bond through action. This is a side-note to the issues in our R about attraction/passion. He has wanted me to be more active and more interested in the things he does - specifically physical activities. While I'm getting there, I could have tried harder in this department and I understand why it's important to him now.
