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Re: M exit strategy ~ kd ~ #2148560 04/21/11 02:37 AM
Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 262 NV O OnMyWay Member
OnMyWay Member O Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 262 NV	KD, I have a question: Why do you spend so much time contacting W? It seems you are emailing her a lot and always having conversations. If she needs space, give it to her. If she feels you always controlling everything, don't - let the chips fall; let her be responsible for herself. Like I always say, be careful what you ask for, you might get it. In my sitch, my WAW wanted out, now she's out. Turns out it's a cold, hard world out there. Too bad for her. Going dark is for you. It will give you a chance to clear your head and put things in perspective. From all your posts, it seems you still "need" her for your "fix." If it's over, let her go. And do not, under any circumstances, be accessible or accommodating. Even if it's about the kids. She's an adult parent - time for her to step up and act like it. And, if you're not ready for the D, then stop helping. She's never gonna respect you for having been a "nice guy" through all this. Sometime you gotta give a man (or W) enough rope, so he can hang himself. Doing a 180 is as much for you as for your M. This counts for what you've done for GAL. If you don't have one started yet, then do a full 180 and get to it. Stop doing what doesn't work. Detachment will be your biggest 180 yet. Get it done. "Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending." - Maria Robinson M: 45 WAW: 36 T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9 ILYBNILWY: 6/2010 W left: 2/2011 W back: 2/2012

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M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/16/11 07:06 PM
Re: M exit strategy	sgctxok	04/16/11 08:33 PM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	04/16/11 11:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/16/11 11:25 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/17/11 12:40 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/17/11 06:13 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/17/11 12:54 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 02:06 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/18/11 02:28 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Forrest Gump	04/18/11 04:21 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 12:27 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 01:02 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 01:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Mach1	04/18/11 01:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 02:17 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 04:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/18/11 04:18 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 04:39 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 05:34 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Mach1	04/18/11 05:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 06:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 06:32 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Mach1	04/18/11 06:53 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 08:24 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 02:40 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 02:57 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 06:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 06:55 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 08:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Redo	04/19/11 08:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 05:25 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Redo	04/20/11 07:52 PM
Re: M exit strategy	jbnati	04/20/11 08:24 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 08:38 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 08:43 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Eryam	04/20/11 08:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 09:05 PM
Re: M exit strategy	hydin	04/20/11 10:43 PM
Re: M exit strategy	OnMyWay	04/21/11 02:37 AM
Re: M exit strategy	OnMyWay	04/21/11 02:44 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/21/11 03:05 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/21/11 09:19 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/24/11 04:53 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/24/11 02:22 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/24/11 03:07 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/25/11 05:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	ninelives	04/25/11 06:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	2stepboogie	04/25/11 07:22 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Redo	04/25/11 07:29 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/25/11 09:07 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/26/11 12:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/26/11 09:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	jbnati	04/26/11 09:49 PM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	04/26/11 11:54 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/27/11 04:01 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/27/11 04:15 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/27/11 02:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/25/11 06:24 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/21/11 02:45 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/18/11 03:38 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	04/27/11 10:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/29/11 08:39 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	04/29/11 10:21 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/03/11 01:03 PM
Re: M exit strategy	jbnati	05/03/11 01:40 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/03/11 04:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/03/11 06:37 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/03/11 08:10 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/03/11 11:18 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/03/11 11:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/04/11 02:29 AM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	05/04/11 01:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/05/11 07:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	05/05/11 07:33 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/05/11 07:43 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/07/11 03:55 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/07/11 05:09 AM
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Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/08/11 05:23 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 06:10 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 06:26 AM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	05/09/11 01:01 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 10:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/09/11 10:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 11:23 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 01:59 AM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/10/11 02:09 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 02:14 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 02:20 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 02:32 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 03:51 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 12:48 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/10/11 01:54 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/10/11 02:01 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/11/11 03:05 AM
Re: M exit strategy	TulsaTime	05/11/11 03:23 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/11/11 04:04 AM
Re: M exit strategy	TulsaTime	05/11/11 05:23 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/11/11 01:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	ninelives	05/11/11 03:19 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/12/11 04:55 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/12/11 05:17 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/12/11 05:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/14/11 08:05 AM
Re: M exit strategy	ninelives	05/14/11 12:53 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/14/11 01:07 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/17/11 04:35 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/17/11 05:38 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 04:34 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/18/11 06:36 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/18/11 02:21 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 03:06 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 03:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/18/11 03:37 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 05:30 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 01:56 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 02:13 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 02:25 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 02:33 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 09:44 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 03:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 04:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 04:49 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 05:12 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 05:14 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 06:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 11:07 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/20/11 07:04 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/20/11 08:33 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/20/11 04:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/09/11 02:48 PM

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