I see my W fishing more, even though she claims that, "I am removed from this .... this is no longer my stress to own."
It was in reference to thinking I was mad at her in an email I'd sent; I was mad, but not at her and told her after. See... why would she care? Who cares...? Not me. Really.
There's also other bizarre behaviours... like really... I love how you call your W "the crazy lady". I got me one of those... :-)
And I think my detaching is having an affect on my D13, as well. I'll post about that in my own thread, but it would probably speak directly at their co-dependency.
Keep GALing with your D. It appears to be DBing at its finest, in your sitch.
