You know, a good relationship is one thing. What was happening, though, was too much. Funny... yes, she had that depdendence, push-pull thing throughout the seperation and afterwards. But, if I'm enabling it, letting it happen, participating, then that's part of the story too.
So, I've changed my behavior.
The past couple of weeks, I've had that dull emotional ache. Not horrible. Maybe it's getting better. Maybe the things I'm having to process in my mind are simplifying. I guess that's positive.
Well, my son told me this morning that I'm the best dad ever, so I'll take that as a good sign that my focus is in the right place.
