Good, this is the place to vent! I know the legal stuff is tough. And I don't think he "picked a good one". It's L's job to get this done and it doesn't sound like she'll do that at all.
Stay strong, keep GAL! You never know what's really happening! For a great example of that, hop on over to my thread.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK